Lessons Gleaned from the Truly Wealthy

Lessons Gleaned from the Truly Wealthy

Some of you may be wondering why this and why now? Is it some sort of ‘sign’or what would she know? She struggles just like us.  Maybe you too felt like I did when I first started on my quest to learn.  I had some pieces of the puzzle, knew what the picture should look like but I never seemed to have all of the pieces.   I still am working on putting the pieces into the right place but I’m getting closer.

It may surprise you to know that I lived next door to the son of a multi-millionaire. When I quit my ‘career’ to raise my sons and delivered the local newspaper, I delivered those papers to not just millionaires but some billionaires too. Some of those people were not just ‘kind’ but helped to mentor me in my quest to be free of the 8-5 work week and follow my dreams. The BEST thing they did was to validate me leaving my established career to do something others felt was menial; stay at home to raise our boys. I was told it was not just a leap of faith but I would never regret it in the long run. They were right…. my fomer boss, the HR director, the manufacturer’s company Representative; all totally wrong.

In retrospect the hardest job I have ever had was being a Mother. The most difficult thing about parenting? Learning to pick my battles wisely. I am still working on that one but in the long run, if socks or mittens magically disappeared, if rooms were not all spit and polish, it really did not matter. The other difficult part was to realize when to let go and know you did your part, now it’s time to let your children unfold their wings and let them fly! It is kind of the same with a lot of our members… we give you the fertile ground and seeds… the rest.. well it’s up to you.

Oh but I digress, that is not the topic I want to write about. There are many things I have learned from those wealthy men and some of their wives over the years and watching some of the goings on within our membership has brought to mind the lessons. It’s time I share what I learned from them and others that were set along my path so many years ago and hope you too glean some useful tidbits for yourself and family.

Most of the people that were in my path no one would have ever guessed had money let alone loads of it. They didn’t drive a Bentley or Mercedes. They drove the cars and trucks you and I drive on a regular basis. They looked and acted like every day normal people. Who would have guessed? It was about the time I was given a “Million dollar bill” (One of those collector types) that I started asking questions.. or realized I was already asking questions. It was about that time I was told it was not my questions that were off but I was not asking the ‘right’ questions. Hmmm right questions, what were they and how would I find out what to ask? Or were there also questions I shouldn’t ask?

First I needed to observe and pay attention to what I did outwardly see. Never did I see those I already KNEW had LOADS of money and assets act like they were superior, give out info, state they were anything but the ‘caretaker’. What shocked me even more is the worse they dressed, some almost like a bum ripped sweater and all, the more they were actually worth!

So here are some of the tidbits either gleaned or outright told to me over the years.

1. Never broadcast what you are worth or how much you control.
All that does is put a target on you and your family. You do not want to put your family, children, and grandchildren in any danger of being targets to get at what you have worked so hard to build so keep your mouth shut. [Just a note here, even in a ‘private’ forum there are always those looking to get what you have or did not put forth the effort you did so they are jealous of what you have acquired]. This rule applies to other people’s Wealth as well. Cross that line just once and you will forever be on the outside looking in. People take their privacy and their safety very seriously and so should you.

2. Manage everything and own nothing.
Ok I know this goes against everything you thought you would want but it actually helps with number 1. Assets in a trust or divided into entities are less likely to be targeted in frivolous lawsuits. [Here is where a good sound financial planner that understands wealth management comes in. There are reputable companies out there to help you decide what is best for your situation.]

3. When dealing with professionals, dress neatly but not over the top.
I have even witnessed one guy looking like a bum when going to take care of business with the wealth manager at our banking institution. Yes, a bum. People that do not know him give him a wide berth thinking he’s going to steal something from them or worse ask for a handout. Now on this one I laugh because we know him personally and he always dresses in a certain way when he is conducting big banking transactions. I realize this probably will have some ‘professionals’ rolling their eyes, however remember, the more you ‘look’ like you have money, the more attention you draw to yourself. That attention can be both good and bad so neat, understated, classic and clean.

4. Be wise with your assets.
If you can get the same product for less or by waiting for just a bit practice patience. Most of these people shop at the same ‘discount’ stores you and I do for a better rate/price or options Rarely do they pay full price for anything other than possibly that special gift for someone special. . Only those that need to ‘put on airs’ flaunt what they have. The rest live modestly and like the average people. They may have a maid or maid service some do hire drivers or a limo from time to time but do not waste money on frivolous things. Now don’t get me wrong, some love antique vehicles and are serious collectors, others collect rare gems, others something that hold is a fascination for them but rarely are these items ‘worthless’ but grow in value over time.

5. Make your money and assets work for you.
Think about some of the lessons from Robert Kiyosaki’s “Rich Dad, Poor Dad”. Once you have worked to get to a ‘comfortable’ living situation and set up a nice legacy for generations to come make those assets continue to produce. Be wise and here again is where sound wealth management and asset specialists come in. Do your research, if you know people that have wealth simply ask them for a referral. Most of them are more than happy to point you to good companies or individuals. They know their reputation in the community would be challenged if they send you to shady people.

6. When confronted about your wealth, simply reply you are just the ‘caretaker’.
This is a profound statement when you think about it. You are the ‘caretaker’ of your account, your holdings, and your possessions. Once again, flaunting what you hold or have can bring things to your doorstep you really do not want to deal with. Have a relative or neighbor that always borrows something and never returns it? Or that ‘friend’ that volunteers your resources for what they feel is ‘worth supporting’ but is not on your heart to support.

7. Never forget your beginnings.
Some people once they have funds forget their roots. Keep your feet on the ground and never forget you are a steward of the wealth you have earned, inherited or won. When a person forgets this they change is so noticably that someone you once ‘hung out with’ no longer is up to par. Never forget those who stuck by you through it all or those that were with you on your way up. They are the ones that are not with you for what you have or what you can do for them but are true friends. They are precious and they are rare; so treat them as the gems they really are. Also along the same subject, never forget to give to those less fortunate. Pick your favorite charity or cause and support it. You will get back far more than you give. I am not saying giving away everything but set aside a certain percentage each month and tithe as well as give to whatever cause is close to your heart.

Can you make a living day trading cryptocurrencies?

Our friends at Reddit says “Absolutely.” Actively trading cryptocurrencies or cryptos for several months can certainly make a decent living if done full time.  Before doing so, the following one needs to consider the following important things:

Research – if you’re not trading you should be reading. Be familiar with current trends such as community loyalty, developer competence of the platforms you use, market confidence, and other trends which may affect the price of a cryptocurrency.

Opportunities – based on your research you should be able to spot investment opportunities and gauge participation based on risk vs reward. Often times grinding out small, low risk moves (such as running arbitrage) can be just as lucrative as catching a big move. Knowing price trends in terms of BTC and USD is vital. Sometimes gains can be made in BTC but not USD and vice versa.

Don’t be greedy – the crypto space is very volatile but it’s not too dissimilar in its trading and price discovery than the stock market. Rallies eventually lead to selloffs and its better to lock in profit early than take on unnecessary risk for a slightly higher move. Also, sometimes doing nothing is better than doing something.

You have to be able to recognize opportunities regardless of market behavior. The market moves relative to the price of BTC.  Even if BTC is in a down trend you can make money by purchasing altcoins (Alternative to Bitcoins, such as COMPUCEEDS, DOGE, LTC, XRP, BTS) that are oversold by trading the altcoin-to-BTC ratios. Sure, your purchasing power in USD may be lower but as long as your purchasing power in BTC is still increasing you’ll be ok.

One thing worth noting is that most interest gained on money is considered to be a strong investment at around 7% interest per year. However, when actively trading, especially day trading you can easily make 10%+ in a day. The important things to realize about day trading are:

You can make money when the market goes down by strategically buying, but also never waiting for the bottom or the top. In the words of Warren Buffet “Catch the Falling Knife” if you wait for the lowest price you’ll miss it.

You will make some horrible losses. When I used to day trade there were days where I made losses of 15%-30% of my portfolio, however, at the end of the month I was up 17% in total as I didn’t let those losses deter me. They will happen, it will be soul crushing, you just can’t quit.

Only invest what you can afford to lose. Some people think this advice is in regards to simply caring about your financial future and if you are ok with risks then you can ignore it. That is NOT the case. This advice actually exists to reflect the decision making model that is required for successful day trading. In day trading you don’t have the opportunity to hesitate and you do have to take occasional gambles, if your dealing with money that you can’t afford to lose then no matter how hard you try, your decision making will be affected and you will not be risk adverse enough.

As far as actually making a living let’s talk about what that would take:

Let’s say it was for $100,000/year (although I know many would be happy with less, we shall assume that someone educated enough to be an active day trader would be aiming for). This breaks down to roughly $2000/week or $400/work day in a week. If we exclude the earlier cases of cryptocurrencies growing thousands of percents a day, and exclude the general stability that we saw in the past few weeks, then it’s easy enough for an experienced day trader to pull of 10-20% a month or more.

For the sake of this math lets say they get a 12.5% return each month: 12.5%*12 = 150% return per year (ignoring compounding) So with an investment of $60,000 a modest decent day trader could be making a decent living. That being said if you were shooting for around the $50k~ income bracket, you’d only need a $30k~ investment to go full time (if you knew what you are doing).

The 7 Deadly Sins Of Investing

Emotions and Biases Affect Your Investment Decisions

Despite repeated studies that suggest investors should just buy “passive index” funds and “hold on” until eternity, the reality is that it simply does not work that way.

If you were raised in a religious household, or were sent to a Catholic school, you have heard of the seven deadly sins. These transgressions — wrath, greed, sloth, pride, lust, envy and gluttony — are human tendencies that, if not overcome, can lead to other sins and a path straight to the netherworld.

In the investing world, these same seven deadly sins apply. These emotions or “behaviors,” just like in life, lead to poor investing outcomes. Therefore, to be a better investor, we must recognize these “moral transgressions” and learn how to overcome them.

Let’s get started.

Wrath – never get angry; just fix the problem and move on.

Individuals tend to believe that investments that they, or their advisor, make should “always” work out. They don’t and they won’t. Getting angry about a losing bet only delays taking the appropriate actions to correct it.

“Loss aversion” is the type of thinking that can be very dangerous for investors. The best course of action is to quickly identify problems, accept that investing contains a “risk of loss,” correct the issue and move on. As the age-old axiom goes: “Cut losers short and let winners run.”

Greed – greed causes more investors to lose more money than at the point of a gun.

The human emotion of “greed” leads to “confirmation bias” where individuals become blinded to contrary evidence leading them to “overstay their welcome.”

Individuals regularly fall prey to the notion that if they “sell” a position to realize a “profit” that they may be “missing out” on further gains. This mentality has a long and depressing history of turning unrealized gains into realized losses as the investment eventually plummets back to earth.

It is important to remember that the primary tenet of investing is to “buy low” and “sell high.” While this seems completely logical, it is emotionally impossible to achieve. It is “greed” that keeps us from selling high, and “fear” that keeps us from buying low. In the end, we are only left with poor results.

Sloth – don’t be lazy; pay attention to your money because if you don’t – no one else with either.

It is quite amazing that for something that is as important to our lives as our “money” is, how little attention we actually pay to it. Not paying attention to your investments, even if you have an advisor, will lead to poor long term results. Portfolios, like a garden, must be tended to on a regular basis, “prune” by rebalancing the allocation, “weed” by selling losing positions, and “harvest” by taking profits from winners.

If you do not regularly tend to a portfolio, the bounty produced will “rot on the vine” and eventually the weeds will eventually reclaim the garden as if it never existed.

Pride – when things are going good don’t be prideful – pride leads to the fall. You are NOT smarter than the market, and it will “eat you alive” as soon as you think you are.

When it comes to investing, it is important to remember that a “rising tide lifts all boats.” The other half of that story is that the opposite in also true. When markets are rising, it seems as if any investment we make works; therefore we start to think that we are “smart investors.” However, the reality is that there is a huge difference between being “smart” and just being “along for the ride.” Ray Dalio, head of Bridgewater which manages more than $140 billion, summed it up best:

“Betting on any market is like poker, it’s a zero-sum game and the deck is stacked against the individual investor in favor of big players like Bridgewater, which has about 1,500 employees. We spend hundreds of millions of dollars on research each year and even then we don’t know that we’re going to win. However, it’s very important for most people to know when not to make a bet because if you’re going to come to the poker table you are going to have to beat me.”

Lust – lusting after some investment will lead you to overpay for it.

“Chasing performance” is a guaranteed recipe for disaster as an investor. For most, by the time that “performance” is highly visible the bulk of that particular investments cyclical gains are already likely achieved. This can been seen in the periodic table of returns below from Callan:



I have highlighted both the S&P 500 Growth and Emerging Market indexes as an example. Importantly, you can see that investment returns can vary widely from one year to the next. “Lusting” after last year’s performance leads to “buying high” which ultimate leads to the second half of the cycle of “selling low.”

It is very hard to “buy stuff when no one else wants it” but that is how investing is supposed to work. Importantly, if you are going to “lust,” “lust” after your spouse – it is guaranteed to pay much bigger dividends.

Envy – this goes along with Lust and Greed

Being envious of someone else’s investment portfolio, or their returns, will only lead to poor decision-making over time. It is also important to remember that when individuals talk about their investments, they rarely tell you about their losers. “I made a killing with XYZ. You should have bought some” is how the line goes. However, what is often left out is that they lost more than what they gained elsewhere.

Advice is often worth exactly what you pay for it, and sometimes not even that. Do what works for you and be happy with where you are. Everything else is secondary, and only leads to making emotional decisions built around greed and lust which have disastrous long term implications.

Gluttony – never, ever over-indulge. Putting too much into one investment is a recipe for disaster.

There are a few great investors in this world than can make large concentrated bets and live to tell about it. It is also important to know that they can “afford” to be wrong – you can’t.

Just like the glutton gorging on a delicious meal – it feels good until it doesn’t, and the damage is often irreversible. History is replete with tales of individuals who had all their money invested in company stock, companies like Enron, Worldcom, Global Crossing; etc. all had huge, fabulous runs and disasterous endings.

Concentrated bets are a great way to make a lot of money in the markets as long as you are “right.” The problem with making concentrated bets is the ability to repeat success. More often than not individuals who try simply wind up broke.

Regardless of how many times I discuss these issues, quote successful investors, or warn of the dangers – the response from both individuals and investment professionals is always the same.

“I am a long-term, fundamental value, investor. So these rules don’t apply to me.”

No you’re not. Yes, they do.

Individuals are long term investors only as long as the markets are rising. Despite endless warnings, repeated suggestions and outright recommendations – getting investors to sell, take profits and manage portfolio risks go unheeded.


Unfortunately, by the time the fear, desperation and panic stages are reached, it is far too late to act, and I will only be able to say that I warned you.

Factors that Influence the Price of Virtual Currencies

Decentralized virtual currencies are not controlled by any government, organisation, or company. All our experience with price determination of traditional fiat money is not applicable in this case. Furthermore, price fluctuations are a subject for trading virtual currencies and earning on the price difference. To predict the next rise or drop in the virtual currency price, it’s good to know what makes it do so. We tried to figure out some of the factors that influence the price of a virtual currency.

People’s Minds

Virtual Currencies, specifically cryptocurrencies, are probably the most democratic currency in the world, as its price is formed based on the correlation between supply and demand on the market of each virtual currency exchange. Thereby, if a person with significant amount of virtual currency decided to sell them at once for some reason, it may lead to a price drop on a certain virtual currency marketplace, and to a drop of the virtual currency price in average. The next factor is something that really influences people’s minds.

Virtual Currency News

Trying to predict where the virtual currency price will go further — up or down — we constantly track news on that particular virtual currency. As one of the famous companies adopts virtual currency, the price goes up. Such a situation happened when Dell or Virgin Galactic started accepting Bitcoin. At the same time, when Apple deleted all the Bitcoin apps from the App Store, Bitcoin price experienced a notable drop. For those who are only considering to enter the Bitcoin ecosystem, news presented by traditional mass media come in hand. TechCrunch hosts a weekly Bitcoin-focused podcast, such media monsters as Forbes, BloombergView, WIRED, and the Wall Street Journal cover Bitcoin news as well.

Killer App

The more people use virtual currency in everyday life, the broader adoption it gains, bringing the price to the moon. But even though virtual currencies have indisputable advantages, it is not as easy in use for everyone. Therefore, it makes sense that so many companies try to develop a real virtual currency killer app that would ease usage in  everyday life to such extent that it stands near Visa and MasterCard.This is how virtual currency is more an more entering not only the lives of geeks and Wall Street traders, but also developers and IT companies.

Exchange Hacks

A dark side of the factors that influence the price are exchange hacks or hacking incidents cited. Perhaps, the most significant price drop throughout the history of Bitcoin was the Mt.Gox incident. Not only people lost their Bitcoins, but they have also gained a disbelief in the system they trusted so much. Those who were not affected by the exchange hack directly, still felt the turbulence of the whole industry because of the price drop.


Each time any government releases official statements regarding regulation of digital currencies, the price is affected. Even if government actions are not directly related to virtual currencies, the impact is also present. Let’s recall, for example, the banking crisis in Cyprus, when the government seized funds, which led to many discussions whether Cyprus should turn to Bitcoin adoption.

“Check cashing” was…

Friday, what can I say? It is a day of pressure or anticipation for most. Last day of the week with goals yet unfinished, a day of earning’s report or paycheck deposits in the bank, do they still get called ” paycheck” because it is not a ” check” but a transfer of virtual currency numbers into a virtual bank? Still spendable, and visible, and efficient we are told, but without a”paper soul.”

In my youth “Friday” night was ” banking and shopping night” in the town I spent a lot of life in.
Dad and Mom worked hard, often to tired to be a parent to us kids, struggling to keep us fed, clothed,and supplying other necessities of life at that time.

But Friday was kind of a mini holiday for us kids. We would get to hang with Dad on main street that bustled with traffic and other people taking a ” Payday” mini-vacation on Friday Night.
The ritual was simple, Dad would find a parking spot on “the main” as close to the bank as possible. We had only had one bank and often the owner/president would be out in front greeting people, making lite cheerful chat as the citizens strode past often making remarks about a getting a new car or a loan was slid into the chat so easy people did not notice the marketing behind his kind words; so he thought. He was a master of deception.
Reaching for his wallet holding the paycheck, Dad entered the bank with a look of determination on his face. This piece of paper dictated the lifestyle of next week. He made a effort to hang on to this proof of purpose until the last minute, picking up a pen and with a flourish, signed his name taking one last glance at the face of the ” Check” earned with ” sweat on the brow” labor. He was a proud man, and this was his hour, his day, to strut a little, claim the reward for a job well-done.

With the check cashed, stepping out of the Granite Temple of the town, Dad would always hesitate at the edge of the sidewalk, ponder things, letting the feeling of a fat wallet warm his perception of life he did not have on Thursday.

Holding on to the little pleasure derived from ” cashing” the check, he would step of the curb with a spring in his step stating, the phrase we waited for because we knew some of the money would trickle down to us big eyed kids; “let’s go shopping” was music to our ears. Like my Dads passing many years ago, so has the ritual of “Friday check cashing” and all the ritual of rewards passed into history. I am lucky if I step into a bank once a month, some do not even have a building, just “O’s and “1’s” on a phone. Virtual currency is here to stay, pushing out the ritual of check cashing. Our society has, for the most part, eliminated that ritual, but the ritual of “earning” is still very much in the forefront of  financial survival. Earning a living is the foundation, but that definition is changing also as the paradigm shift ripples  the present and meanders  into the future. Virtual currency is causing the ripples.


As I take in what Compumatrix can do for me in my life, I wonder what it can do for others. As with anything, our intention is so important.

Most people on this planet could use a flow of income simply to support themselves with the basics. That’s a given. But money is simply the catalyst.

What are the possibilities of growing a business in Compumatrix?

  • Having the income to purchase the tools and services to grow our dream.
  • Having the time to create and do what we love.
  • In meeting our own dream, we serve the world with it.
  • Being able to leave the “day job” at some point.
  • The ability to pay off debt.
  • The extra cash to share with others, to be more generous with our gifts.

Compumatrix isn’t just about getting out of survival mode. That’s just the beginning. It’s so much more!

We have unlimited potential.

I believe most humans love to help others. In this business, we do it by helping others to start their own businesses in Compumatrix, and/or we can help them as philanthropists…in small or big ways. WE get to be the example, Be the Change.

It doesn’t get any better than this.

Compumatrix is a win.win.win that serves the World ♥