The Quickest Way to Get is to Give

It’s actual. You can’t generally get what you need in life until you have offered it to other people. Won’t sound like it bodes well, isn’t that right? How might you give what you don’t have? As you open your brain to the chance and pose this inquiry of yourself, you permit the chance to come to you and thump at your entryway. At that point, you will discover a way that it is conceivable to provide for others what you want, before accepting it yourself.

It nearly seems like a networking letter and in a way it is. The networking letter is a flippant reference as such a large number of us have been presented to it at this point and realize they are ill-conceived tricks. However, the essential standards are: you give before you get, and you give with the confidence and desire for acceptance. A comparative model can be found in the film Pay It Forward. By providing for other people, you permit beneficial things to transpire. What’s more, this all comes down to the straightforward law of attraction.

The law of attraction resembles some other law of nature, similar to gravity. Also, it isn’t one that has been found at this point. Thus, the majority of us are strolling around deduction in a disarranged worldview.

Cluttered ideal models of thought are shown again and again ever, and revelations of regular laws and perceptions of reality have carried the request to change the confusing convictions that had been acknowledged with certainty. You can consider numerous models, for example, the conviction that the world is level or the conviction that we are at the focal point of the universe. Or then again the incredible changes that came about as a revelation of the power of power and bridling its normal force

In this equivalent way, we can roll out an improvement in our scattered idea designs. At present, 99% of us are most likely disappointed. Disappointment implies bigger life is looking to be communicated through us, and it is being blocked. Self-harm is an undeniable procedure working in the undetectable domains of the oblivious psyche.

The uplifting news is there are a ton of basic, little yet amazing procedures you can use to reconstruct that almighty oblivious brain of yours, to arrange your own life as you need it. Truly, there IS an approach to wipe out the mayhem in your life, and it begins inside. It begins by disposing of the frequently inconspicuous disorder as far as you could tell.

The procedure in this article is just one of an immense range that you can use every day to improve your life drastically. In this blog, you are figuring out how to utilize the law of attraction to pull in to yourself what you need.

The law of attraction, similar to gravity, is undeniable. You will draw in what you are conveying. Your musings are genuine in the realm of attraction.

If your brain is reverberating with examples of nervousness, stress, outrage, misery, jealousy, anguish, or some other negative feeling, you will draw in business as usual in your life.

One stage you can take to change this is to concentrate on providing for others before you get yourself. Along these lines, you are changing your vibration and your core interest. Furthermore, you open yourself to get what you had been cutting off previously.

It is extremely easy to give. Give off what you have, and everybody has something to give. We as a whole have a natural incentive to offer the world. A withstanding theory in the law of attraction is to consistently offer an expansion in esteem, to give back more in an incentive than you get in cash. Thus you keep on giving more than you get and draw in more and bigger life back to yourself.

Take time for a minute to search inside and discover something, anything, regardless of how little or straightforward, to provide for anybody, companion, or outsider. Start the act of giving, and you will make one stride towards raising your degree of vibration and improving the estimation of what you draw in your own life. Give something sacrificially today, realizing that you will get it duplicated back in your life, ten times.

Applying this to business, many online companies have come with the slogan, “Pay it forward”, but vanished into thing airs. In our Company Compumatrix, although not on a large scale, “giving and taking” are common among Compumatrix family, when a requirement comes, as a necessity to members to get qualified. The Compumatrix family, consisting of persons from allover the world, is a close knit family, which has no comparison, anywhere in the world.

About the author

Murali Krishna Akilla is a founder member of Compumatrix. He is a writer and blogger. At the age of 72 years, he keeps writing.


  1. A very nicely-written blog; Krish.
    Let us open our hearts – to give willingly and abundantly. Our moral obligation lies in helping others. All good deeds come back to us, like a boomerang.
    Ask and you shall receive – give and it shall be given back to you , in good measure. Those who cultivate the art of giving without expecting anything in return, will certainly be rewarded. See, how Compumatrix is giving us this great opportunity to change ours and other peoples lives. This is one such example and there will be many more in times to come.

  2. Great blog Krish and yes the Law of Attraction says that you will attract into your life whatever you focus on. Whatever you give your energy and attention to will come back to you. So, if you stay focused on the good and positive things in your life, you will automatically attract more good and positive things into your life. If you give whatever you can , it will come back . I have experienced this many times in my live and its working very well.

  3. Krish a very intense and well thought of blog and thanks. Giving without expecting anything in return should be the motto for all of us .
    Helping people in need without any desire or want of a return is important and time and again it has proven to give many fold returns of your generosity.Compumatrix as one great example where we shall be beneficiaries of our miniscule monetory help we forwarded to the cause. This act will be a boon to a lot of people in various ways all over the world. Soon see it happen

  4. very good read with a very deep thought process in the mix — do agree so much with the laws of attraction and when you Give you in turn Receive that much more — life when you take time to look at your history –most will find that truth in Capital letters –some will always not see the true picture but most would –great stuff again Krish —

  5. Pay -it -forward … I have been doing that all my life ..even before Pay it Forward became a buzz word these last few years. Living in a small fishing community , Everyone knows everyone and when some one needs help or runs out of heating oil , food , The community is right there to help when needed .Giving is a feel good feeling and know when you give you expect nothing back in return. One day it may be our turn to need help .

  6. Growing up surrounded by family members that grew their own food , went to the flour mill and watched them grind the flour and bag it and lugged it home on the ox cart .. made their own clothes and hunted and fished .. Survival was hard. Paying it Forward was just a way of life. never thought once of not helping our neighbor or the hobo’s that traveled by train from place to place. and give them some food , a hot meal and extra to take with them.. It was just the right thing to do. .

  7. Murali totally agree with you! I have always tried to help people and to wish good things in their lives, such as love, peace, health, harmony, prosperity and Divine blessings! And, thank God, my life and that of my family have been very blessed. Says the beautiful prayer of San Francisco “… it is in giving that one receives, it is in forgiving, that one is forgiven …” I wish you much prosperity in the near future for all of us at Compumatrix!

  8. Your picture is absolutely beautiful, Murali! So agree that we must exhibit and send out to the universe that which we wish to attract back into our lives to raise our vibrational energies. The method of tithing is one way of “paying it forward”, though giving does not just need to be financial, but giving of your time, knowledge, even extra vegetables! To be part of such a large international family as Compumatrix is a huge blessing containing all these examples.

  9. I have learned from a small age that I will get back what I put into the universe. I am a strong believer in the law of attraction and manifestations, and I use it in my everyday life. I think this all comes back to treating others the way you want to be treated. If you chose to live like this so many more doors and opportunities will open up because of your kind actions.

  10. Pay it Forward is such a good way to live life. Never expect anything in return and do for others. Living this way is a great way to live by example and ensure your heart will will radiate with love. Teaching this principle to kids is a great way to make the world a brighter place for years to come. In the years to come, Compumatrix will allow many of us to Pay it Forward in ways we never thought possible. I personally cant wait!!

  11. I think this blog post goes without saying, but I am so glad that you said it! If you are kind to someone, you will receive kindness back. If you do something for someone else, someone else will do something for you. I think if you just truly try to be a good person every day of your life and think about how you could benefit someone else, you will receive so much more in the long run!

  12. This is a fascinating commentary and there’s plenty information to draw from. I think the most important to remember for me is: “If your brain is reverberating with examples of nervousness, stress, outrage, misery, jealousy, anguish, or some other negative feeling, you will draw in business as usual in your life.” That may be the reason why you see the opposite outcome in what you do.
    It’s also interesting that many times, what you give, comes back eventually but in a different form, such is when you give material goods, money, etc. it comes back in the least expected way. Also regarding love to others, sometimes you give love and is not returned back as we would like to. Like the Bible says, God works in mysterious ways.

  13. Well done Murali, you put a lot of effort into something that we should all be doing anyway. Unfortunately, most of us don’t as we are focused on getting rather than watching out for the few that are suffering lack at some point in their lives. I have the pleasure of knowing someone in Compumatrix who goes out of his way to help others before he helps himself, and he instills in me the unselfish thoughts of wow, I want to do something good for that guy. When you give, or when you see others do so, it makes one take a step back and want to do the right thing.

  14. Thanks, Krish for your post. I grew up in a family where we had very little money, my father had a lot of ill health BUT he was always ‘giving’. He would always show compassion to others that were ill, ignored, or didn’t apparently ‘fit in’. He recounted a story around the dinner table of how when walking into work that morning down this back road full of potholes…there was an elderly lady coming the other way with her head bowed. As she passed he said “good morning madam” she stopped and lifted her head, a smile lit up her face, and she said “Sir I prayed to God…I said, “God, no one has spoken to me all week, if no one speaks to me today then I am going to come to be with you.” She said “God has answered my prayers..thank you”
    So even if we ‘think’ we have nothing to smile or kindness can change someone’s life and make their day.

  15. Thanks, Krish for your sharing. I love the power of paying it forward or giving. I have big dreams of helping others. I already have plans for dental facilities for Veterans and homeless. We have lots of plans already written out. What things will cost down to how many at a time we can hold in the facilities. We have one to get youth off the streets. I can’t wait. it will be such fun helping others get started. “What the Bleep do we know” is a great movie on energy and how we send it to others. When you pray you are sending that energy to that person. It’s amazing when you think we are all creators in body, words are powerful.

  16. Krish thank you for sharing this, giving actually is a gift as well as its an inspiration, i agree with the you that what you give will surely come back to you in many forms, heart of giving is never empty, the feeling that follows after giving is real , you smile all the time.

  17. Murali, you are right again. Just like laughter, it does the heart good like a medicine to open to others and give, whether it be a smile, a word of encouragement, a place to live, financial assistance, or to find them employment. Giving can be done in numerous ways. We need to keep in faith. I know this is hard for those who have been of a negative mindset. Being negative is a habit. It usually takes about three months to break a habit. Think about whatsoever is right, what so ever is happy, what so ever is honest, and true. We put others before ourselves, help them, and we are helping ourselves. We need to keep our eyes on the goal, don’t look around at what is or is not happening, focus on what we would like to bring forth in our lives. Murali, a wealth of truth in your post.

  18. what a tremendous inspiring read here — and so much truth in what You put into any part of Life will have an impact in the results — and life has taught that literally the more you give the better your heart expounds on the daily experience — it is so nice to experience the quality of being a part of other peoples joy peace success — its not selfish but when you give what you know is correct to help others and they benefit and win at that moment it is a Joy that makes each moment worthwhile — jmho — great read and thank you —

  19. When you look in the mirror, do you see the same person others see?

    You had this line in your bog. “to arrange your own life as you need it”
    When I read this line, I thought about who we want to be. I thought about the mirror and the reflection of who we are or is it who we wish to be. As you make a reference to the “Law of Attraction”, it is obvious we will never be satisfied until we reflect in the mirror the person we desire to be. When we see the same person that others see and that person is the person of our desire, then and only then will we find true harmony.

  20. Yes Krish. You nailed it here. It’s better to give than to receive. Those were words spoken by Jesus. There is also an ancient proverb that says, there is one who holds back and comes to poverty, but there is one who scatters and yet increases. I truly believe that you reap what you sow. You sow good seeds into others lives by giving to them, and it always seems to find a way of returning to you. We are blessed to be a blessing…..We bless by giving.

  21. “Every man shall give as he is able, according to the blessing of the Lord your God which He has given you”. No one has nothing to give, since we have been created and blessed with many different talents and gifts. Giving is a kind hearted and voluntarily of someone. Not necessarily financial or tangible assets, but also intangible assets like knowledge and ideas. Take a case of Compumatrix; it’s my surprise with the incredible knowledge of the blogs, that am always reading. Truly, sharing is caring and always being advised to be our brother and sister’s keeper.

  22. Thank you Krish for sharing your thoughts with us thru blogging.
    We are fine because we have but we are blessed when we give. This giving must come from the heart, not taken away from us or scammed.
    Nothing in this world is ours for it comes from the father in heaven or if you are not religious, then mother nature provides the necessary tools.
    Yes, it is better to give than to receive.

  23. it is just a great moment when we put all the different parts of each day into our thought process — putting Life forward and giving all we have to each moment — life will teach us that giving is that much fun — and honestly paying it forward is beyond most of our thoughts legitimately — but as an old guy in America the more i work at being honest and giving all i have to help — the more my face smiles — lol

  24. Mankind will not succeed through an attitude of selfishness. It is important that we work together to accomplish goals. It is important that we all are there to hold each other up. It is important that we all contribute our part. As we all are willing to give, we will benefit. It reminds me of this Biblical saying…..GIVE and it shall be given unto you!

  25. Thanks for this blog Krish. There is saying you can’t receive if you have your hands or arms closed, I belive that this also is true of your heart and mind. Pay it foward not only helps others it helps you also.”It is better to give than receive.” Microsoft founder Bill Gates has reached out to other Billionaires and asked them to sign a pledge to give away a large portion of their wealth, many have signed this pledge. While the are no Billionaires in Compumatrix I’m sure many members will pay it foward and help others when funds start flowing.

  26. most definitely giving is that important — it is not a tv moment or absolute parts of what each of us have worked towards — after 60+ years inside my Heart is all about doing Life Correct — and that means i give and treat each moment as an opportunity to help others grow — imho if You feel in your Heart that Correct is a good thing then You should be smiling every day because you are giving and everything else honestly doesn’t really matter — jmho — rj

  27. This is really an easy concept to grasp, at least for me. It is the same as giving your tithe to the church (a biblical reference to giving10% of your income to your church), and is meant for our benefit because sacrificing a portion of our income helps us look outside our selfishness and makes us more aware of the needs of others. Tithing is an act of faith that helps us keep our priorities straight. It reminds us that we don’t own anything in this life. God is in control, and we’re only managers of what He’s given us. Ever notice how unselfish people tend to make better spouses, friends, relatives, employees and employers?  We don’t give to get, but God often blesses us with more if we’re good managers of what we already have. Tithing recognizes that God is our provider and that we will prosper with more than just money if we rely on Him. This certainly applies directly to the title of your article “The Quickest Way to Get is to Give”. When you give to people, whether with your money or your time or your assistance with something, you are much more likely to see them respond in kind. People, good people, don’t forget when someone has been generous toward them. It all makes for a better world whether the business world or just life in general. The good news is that there are an abundance of Compumatrix members that have adopted this way of thinking, this way of life. So many of the members of Compumatrix can’t wait until we are able to get our hands on spendable funds so that we will be able to help others that so desperately need it. What a great feeling that will be. Even better, always remember that the quickest way to get is to give.  

  28. had to come back and read this great blog post and the replies again — it is amazing to me just how giving is ultimately the first and foremost step in the definition of life and a great life — the more you give — you know the rest great stuff really —

  29. He who does good will meet good. It is a well-known verse from the bible but you can find this opinion in many religions and philosophies. It is an important concept, not only in your family relations but also in your work. According to these religions, you become a better person if you meet others in a positive way and help them when help is needed. And I think this is true. I prefer to live with this attitude.

  30. oh even at this point in todays’ virus lock down — we should always be giving as best we can — it is not always a simple proposition or even a remotely east way at going at it — but after 60+ years do agree with the simplicity of this great blog — Give is the Answer to ultimate Success — do like that thought and try my best —

  31. A Miracle happened in my life when I was living in FL after a horrible time in my life I was working online and I received a check for 1,444 that same day I received a letter from Life Outreach who asked for a 144.00 donation for water wells in Africa where they had to walk 5 miles for water daily I immediately wrote and told them that this was not a coincidence and wrote the check it was 1:30 AM and I went to put it in my mailbox, it was a beautiful night every star bright I love looking at the stars and when I put my flag up on my mailbox POOF a huge cross in cloud form appeared over my trailer I was stunned no one was awake to show it to, God did that for me but he was not finished 2 weeks later there was 500.00 added to my bank account with no deposit record I was stunned again and the bank never questioned it. He says in his word he will prove it to you if you are sincere and he did for me.

  32. Murali, Great article,Helping others makes a person even greater,you can comfort others with a lot of things,involvement in someone’s pain,I always try to help others. I do it in any way I can, feeding the poor,helping someone with academic matters, God is pleased with this and we make our hereafter better,the compumatrix  family is so great that they are never  away from helping each other.”If you want others to be happy, practice compassion, If you want to be happy, compassion.” Dalai Lama 

  33. here we are pushing forward in our Compu Biz and still in life in general –the more I give to each moment the more the Joy and in my case Peace are so much the Smile on my face and knowing that by giving Truly — the returns are also real and True — and reading this great blog just helps and is so appreciated — rj

  34. Giving is an act of kindness; an act of worship to glorify God. The most beautiful act of giving is doing it for someone who is unable to repay, or so I thought. Years ago, out of compassion, I gave a little financial help to a young married man who had been laid off from work doing menial job. He came to the house the following day asking to cut the grass in our yard (as a form of gratitude). I was surprised, was actually teary-eyed, for it is not common for a poor fellow to try to return a favor that was freely given. I thought with his sense of responsibility and integrity his family will not go hungry.

  35. The blog mentioned how might you give what you don’t have. Giving without expectation has been described as “giving without expectation–to give based on someone else’s needs without assuming something will come back to you in return.” I believe that we are rewarded for our good deeds, many times double and when we least expect it.

  36. I look at the graphic of the blog and see the hand holding the heart and I am reminded of something I first heard my grandfather say. If you close your hand and hold on tight to something, nothing may get out of your hand, but nothing will get into it either. So getting does come from giving.

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